Real, Terrence
Overview
| Works: | 41 works in 144 publications in 8 languages and 4,454 library holdings |
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| Genres: | Educational films Internet videos Interviews Instructional films Lectures Case studies Children's films Juvenile works Drama Handbooks and manuals |
| Roles: | Author, Speaker, Interviewee, Narrator, Contributor, Director |
| Classifications: | RC537, 616.85270081 |
Publication Timeline
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Most widely held works by
Terrence Real
I don't want to talk about it : overcoming the secret legacy of male depression by
Terrence Real(
Book
)
37 editions published between 1997 and 2020 in 5 languages and held by 1,642 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
A study of the hidden epidemic of male depression draws on case studies to examine the causes of the ailment and how men can heal themselves, repair relationships, and break the chain of depression
37 editions published between 1997 and 2020 in 5 languages and held by 1,642 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
A study of the hidden epidemic of male depression draws on case studies to examine the causes of the ailment and how men can heal themselves, repair relationships, and break the chain of depression
The new rules of marriage : what you need to know to make love work by
Terrence Real(
Book
)
6 editions published between 2007 and 2008 in English and held by 662 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
Family therapist Terrence Real presents a message that women need to hear: You aren't crazy--you're right! Women have changed in the last 25 years--they have become powerful, independent, self-confident, and happy. Yet many men remain irresponsible and emotionally detached. Here, Real shows women how to master the new rules of twenty-first-century marriage by offering them a set of effective tools with which they can create the truly intimate relationship that they desire and deserve. He identifies five non-starters to avoid and shares strategies for bringing honesty, passion, and joy back to even the most difficult relationship. Using his experience helping thousands of couples shift from despair to profound emotional closeness, Real guides you through the process of relationship repair with exercises that you can do alone or with your partner.--From publisher description
6 editions published between 2007 and 2008 in English and held by 662 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
Family therapist Terrence Real presents a message that women need to hear: You aren't crazy--you're right! Women have changed in the last 25 years--they have become powerful, independent, self-confident, and happy. Yet many men remain irresponsible and emotionally detached. Here, Real shows women how to master the new rules of twenty-first-century marriage by offering them a set of effective tools with which they can create the truly intimate relationship that they desire and deserve. He identifies five non-starters to avoid and shares strategies for bringing honesty, passion, and joy back to even the most difficult relationship. Using his experience helping thousands of couples shift from despair to profound emotional closeness, Real guides you through the process of relationship repair with exercises that you can do alone or with your partner.--From publisher description
How can I get through to you? : reconnecting men and women by
Terrence Real(
Book
)
5 editions published in 2002 in English and held by 634 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
Taking a look at gender roles and conditioning, the author explores the current status of intimate relations between men and women and introduces five core relationship skills that couples can use to develop true intimacy
5 editions published in 2002 in English and held by 634 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
Taking a look at gender roles and conditioning, the author explores the current status of intimate relations between men and women and introduces five core relationship skills that couples can use to develop true intimacy
The new rules of marriage : [give him what he needs to give you the love you want] by
Terrence Real(
Recording
)
12 editions published in 2007 in English and held by 225 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
Unabridged
12 editions published in 2007 in English and held by 225 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
Unabridged
Overcoming resistance in male clients(
Visual
)
2 editions published in 2012 in English and held by 223 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
Avoid the pitfalls of traditional approaches with men, including therapeutic neutrality, and explore methods for: Challenging male grandiosity; Achieving therapeutic leverage with men; Joining through the truth; Teaching relational mindfulness; Distinguishing between consciousness I vs. consciousness II
2 editions published in 2012 in English and held by 223 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
Avoid the pitfalls of traditional approaches with men, including therapeutic neutrality, and explore methods for: Challenging male grandiosity; Achieving therapeutic leverage with men; Joining through the truth; Teaching relational mindfulness; Distinguishing between consciousness I vs. consciousness II
Couple experiential 2016 : live clinical demonstrations with real couples(
Visual
)
2 editions published in 2016 in English and held by 193 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
World renowned couple's therapist, Terry Real, works intensively with a group of five real couples, getting down to their most intimate issues and demonstrating powerful treatment techniques. His work with each couple is deep, highly emotional, incisive and often life changing. Using techniques drawn from the approach he created, Relational Life Therapy (RLT), each couple is led, with extraordinary quickness and precision, to their 'next step' toward unlocking their fullest potential. RLT leverages the concept of "relational living" in order to help people address relational and psychological health in relationships. The format could not be simpler, or more exciting, as you see firsthand, a respected leader in the field work with each couple, one after another, who are experiencing different issues and in need of their own treatment approach. Witness Terry address and treat key issues often found in Couples Therapy: Rage f & Control f & Infidelity f & Distance f & Lost Passion f & Trauma f & Addiction f & High Ambivalence How it Works: Each couple names their issues and identify their goals or wishes for the two-day treatment. Terry works with each couple, talking through their issues, articulating where the couple is stuck and where this relationship road block comes from. Watch and learn how Terry performs initial data gathering leading to a rich, precise and relational diagnosis and gain leverage by empowering a dis-empowered partner. Terry demonstrates powerful strategies to help the couple move forward, delve into deep trauma work, and actively teach new relational skills. Terry breaks and debriefs what you just witnessed, while the audience asks questions, and shares their observations and feelings
2 editions published in 2016 in English and held by 193 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
World renowned couple's therapist, Terry Real, works intensively with a group of five real couples, getting down to their most intimate issues and demonstrating powerful treatment techniques. His work with each couple is deep, highly emotional, incisive and often life changing. Using techniques drawn from the approach he created, Relational Life Therapy (RLT), each couple is led, with extraordinary quickness and precision, to their 'next step' toward unlocking their fullest potential. RLT leverages the concept of "relational living" in order to help people address relational and psychological health in relationships. The format could not be simpler, or more exciting, as you see firsthand, a respected leader in the field work with each couple, one after another, who are experiencing different issues and in need of their own treatment approach. Witness Terry address and treat key issues often found in Couples Therapy: Rage f & Control f & Infidelity f & Distance f & Lost Passion f & Trauma f & Addiction f & High Ambivalence How it Works: Each couple names their issues and identify their goals or wishes for the two-day treatment. Terry works with each couple, talking through their issues, articulating where the couple is stuck and where this relationship road block comes from. Watch and learn how Terry performs initial data gathering leading to a rich, precise and relational diagnosis and gain leverage by empowering a dis-empowered partner. Terry demonstrates powerful strategies to help the couple move forward, delve into deep trauma work, and actively teach new relational skills. Terry breaks and debriefs what you just witnessed, while the audience asks questions, and shares their observations and feelings
Couples therapy : advances and challenges in couples therapy today(
Visual
)
1 edition published in 2014 in English and held by 192 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
In this Forum, each participant will respond to the question "What's the most important new idea or discovery shaping your practice with couples today?" Each presenter offers a 20-minute presentation in the compelling TED Talk style followed by the opportunity for further exchange and exploration with the audience
1 edition published in 2014 in English and held by 192 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
In this Forum, each participant will respond to the question "What's the most important new idea or discovery shaping your practice with couples today?" Each presenter offers a 20-minute presentation in the compelling TED Talk style followed by the opportunity for further exchange and exploration with the audience
How can I get through to you? : closing the intimacy gap between men and women by
Terrence Real(
Book
)
6 editions published between 2002 and 2010 in English and held by 152 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
"Bestselling author and nationally renowned therapist Terrence Real unearths the causes of communication blocks between men and women in this groundbreaking work. Relationships are in trouble; the demand for intimacy today must be met with new skills, and Real -- drawing on his pioneering work on male depression -- gives both men and women those skills, empowering women and connecting men, radically reversing the attitudes and emotional stumbling blocks of the patriarchal culture in which we were raised. Filled with powerful stories of the couples Real treats, no other relationship book is as straight talking or compelling in its innovative approach to healing wounds and reconnecting partners with a new strength and understanding."--Publisher's description
6 editions published between 2002 and 2010 in English and held by 152 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
"Bestselling author and nationally renowned therapist Terrence Real unearths the causes of communication blocks between men and women in this groundbreaking work. Relationships are in trouble; the demand for intimacy today must be met with new skills, and Real -- drawing on his pioneering work on male depression -- gives both men and women those skills, empowering women and connecting men, radically reversing the attitudes and emotional stumbling blocks of the patriarchal culture in which we were raised. Filled with powerful stories of the couples Real treats, no other relationship book is as straight talking or compelling in its innovative approach to healing wounds and reconnecting partners with a new strength and understanding."--Publisher's description
7 skills for addiction-free living : problem solving by
Jon Carlson(
Visual
)
5 editions published between 2002 and 2011 in English and held by 135 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
You or someone in your family may be one of the millions of people who struggle with the pain of substance abuse and addiction. The video series has been designed to give you a set of practical tools that can help you win this battle. The skills that are taught on the tapes can help people develop healthier life styles and cope with situations that might otherwise be associated with drug or alcohol use. In each tape, you will see a group of people like yourself learn from an expert how to carry out a skill that is associated with recovery. You will see:- An explanation of how the skill relates to addiction-free living.- Practice demonstrations for all the behaviors that make up the skill.- Directions to help you practice on your own
5 editions published between 2002 and 2011 in English and held by 135 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
You or someone in your family may be one of the millions of people who struggle with the pain of substance abuse and addiction. The video series has been designed to give you a set of practical tools that can help you win this battle. The skills that are taught on the tapes can help people develop healthier life styles and cope with situations that might otherwise be associated with drug or alcohol use. In each tape, you will see a group of people like yourself learn from an expert how to carry out a skill that is associated with recovery. You will see:- An explanation of how the skill relates to addiction-free living.- Practice demonstrations for all the behaviors that make up the skill.- Directions to help you practice on your own
How can I get through to you? : reconnecting men and women by
Terrence Real(
Recording
)
5 editions published between 2002 and 2004 in English and held by 87 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
Taking a close-up look at gender roles and conditioning, the author explores the current status of intimate relations between men and women and introduces five core relationship skills that couples can use to develop true intimacy
5 editions published between 2002 and 2004 in English and held by 87 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
Taking a close-up look at gender roles and conditioning, the author explores the current status of intimate relations between men and women and introduces five core relationship skills that couples can use to develop true intimacy
I don't want to talk about it : overcoming the secret legacy of male depression by
Terrence Real(
Recording
)
12 editions published between 2011 and 2015 in English and held by 83 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
Psychotherapist Terrence Real offers an important and compelling look at the silent epidemic of depression among men and shows, with compassion and clarity, what can be done to break this vicious cycle
12 editions published between 2011 and 2015 in English and held by 83 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
Psychotherapist Terrence Real offers an important and compelling look at the silent epidemic of depression among men and shows, with compassion and clarity, what can be done to break this vicious cycle
Cómo puedo entenderte? : claves para recuperar la comunicación en la pareja by
Terrence Real(
Book
)
9 editions published between 2002 and 2007 in 4 languages and held by 53 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
9 editions published between 2002 and 2007 in 4 languages and held by 53 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
Nan ren qi shi hen you yu by Rui er(
Book
)
2 editions published between 2003 and 2004 in Chinese and held by 36 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
Ben shu tan tao liao xu duo guan yu nan ren de yin xing you yu, nan ren de zi wei te zhi, yi ji nan ren de shang yin xing wei deng deng wen ti
2 editions published between 2003 and 2004 in Chinese and held by 36 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
Ben shu tan tao liao xu duo guan yu nan ren de yin xing you yu, nan ren de zi wei te zhi, yi ji nan ren de shang yin xing wei deng deng wen ti
Fierce intimacy : standing up to one another with love by
Terrence Real(
)
3 editions published in 2018 in English and held by 18 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
Offers advice for couples on improving relationships through the use of five winning strategies that lead to better comminication, trust, and mutual support
3 editions published in 2018 in English and held by 18 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
Offers advice for couples on improving relationships through the use of five winning strategies that lead to better comminication, trust, and mutual support
Mir geht's doch gut männliche Depressionen - warum sie so oft verborgen bleiben, woran man sie erkennt und wie man sie heilen
kann by
Terrence Real(
Book
)
3 editions published between 1999 and 2001 in German and held by 15 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
Inhaltsübersicht: 1. Die verborgene Depression der Männer, 2. Söhne des Narziss: Selbstwertgefühl, Scham und Depression, 3. Die hohlen Männer: verborgene Depression und Sucht, 4. Ein Band, geschnürt um unser Herz: Trauma und Biologie, 5. Männlichkeit verüben, 6. Der Verlust der Verbundenheit, 7. Unvermeidliche Verluste, 8. Zwei innere Kinder, 9. Das Gleichgewicht siegt: die Heilung des Erbes, 10. Der Weg durchs öde Land: sich selbst heilen, 11. Intimität lernen: die Heilung unserer Beziehungen, 12. Schlussbemerkung: der Stand der Dinge, Epilog, Danksagung, Ausgewählte Literatur, Quellenverzeichnis
3 editions published between 1999 and 2001 in German and held by 15 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
Inhaltsübersicht: 1. Die verborgene Depression der Männer, 2. Söhne des Narziss: Selbstwertgefühl, Scham und Depression, 3. Die hohlen Männer: verborgene Depression und Sucht, 4. Ein Band, geschnürt um unser Herz: Trauma und Biologie, 5. Männlichkeit verüben, 6. Der Verlust der Verbundenheit, 7. Unvermeidliche Verluste, 8. Zwei innere Kinder, 9. Das Gleichgewicht siegt: die Heilung des Erbes, 10. Der Weg durchs öde Land: sich selbst heilen, 11. Intimität lernen: die Heilung unserer Beziehungen, 12. Schlussbemerkung: der Stand der Dinge, Epilog, Danksagung, Ausgewählte Literatur, Quellenverzeichnis
Problem solving by
Randall I Charles(
Visual
)
3 editions published between 2002 and 2011 in English and held by 14 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
Terry Real teaches a group of participants how to define a problem, visualize solutions, identify obstacles, discover resources for help, and make action plans
3 editions published between 2002 and 2011 in English and held by 14 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
Terry Real teaches a group of participants how to define a problem, visualize solutions, identify obstacles, discover resources for help, and make action plans
Was kann ich tun, dass du mich hörst? wie Männer und Frauen sich wieder nahe kommen by
Terrence Real(
Book
)
1 edition published in 2002 in German and held by 11 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
1 edition published in 2002 in German and held by 11 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
Wonderful marriage : a guide to building a great relationship that will last a lifetime by
Lilo Leeds(
Recording
)
1 edition published in 2008 in English and held by 11 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
A no-nonsense approach to marriage relationships, providing insight into everything from sex to communication
1 edition published in 2008 in English and held by 11 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
A no-nonsense approach to marriage relationships, providing insight into everything from sex to communication
Alexandre Dumas' The three musketeers by
Terrence Real(
Book
)
1 edition published in 1977 in English and held by 10 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
1 edition published in 1977 in English and held by 10 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
Nowe zasady małżeństwa : co musisz wiedzieć, żeby wspomóc waszą miłość by
Terrence Real(
)
3 editions published between 2007 and 2008 in English and Polish and held by 10 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
In his extraordinary new book, Terrence Real, distinguished therapist and bestselling author, presents a long overdue message that women need to hear: You aren't crazy--you're right! Women have changed in the last twenty-five years--they have become powerful, independent, self-confident, and happy. Yet many men remain irresponsible and emotionally detached. They don't know how to respond to frustrated partners who just want their mates to show up and grow up. Enter the good news: In this revolutionary book, Real shows women how to master the new rules of twenty-first-century marriage by offering them a set of effective tools with which they can create the truly intimate relationship that they desire and deserve. He identifies five non-starters to avoid and shares practical strategies for bringing honesty, passion, and joy back to even the most difficult relationship. Using his experience helping thousands of couples shift from despair to profound emotional closeness, Real guides you through the process of relationship repair with exercises that you can do alone or with your partner. With this program you'll discover how to - identify and articulate your wants and needs - listen well and respond generously - set limits, and stand up for yourself - embrace and appreciate what you have - know when to seek outside help The New Rules of Marriage will introduce you to a radically new kind of relationship, one based on the idea that every woman has the power to transform her marriage, while men, given the right support, have it in them to rise to the occasion. We have never wanted so much from our relationships as we do today. More than any other generation, we yearn for our mates to be lifelong friends and lovers. The New Rules of Marriage shows us how to fulfill this courageous and uncompromising new vision. From the Hardcover edition
3 editions published between 2007 and 2008 in English and Polish and held by 10 WorldCat member libraries worldwide
In his extraordinary new book, Terrence Real, distinguished therapist and bestselling author, presents a long overdue message that women need to hear: You aren't crazy--you're right! Women have changed in the last twenty-five years--they have become powerful, independent, self-confident, and happy. Yet many men remain irresponsible and emotionally detached. They don't know how to respond to frustrated partners who just want their mates to show up and grow up. Enter the good news: In this revolutionary book, Real shows women how to master the new rules of twenty-first-century marriage by offering them a set of effective tools with which they can create the truly intimate relationship that they desire and deserve. He identifies five non-starters to avoid and shares practical strategies for bringing honesty, passion, and joy back to even the most difficult relationship. Using his experience helping thousands of couples shift from despair to profound emotional closeness, Real guides you through the process of relationship repair with exercises that you can do alone or with your partner. With this program you'll discover how to - identify and articulate your wants and needs - listen well and respond generously - set limits, and stand up for yourself - embrace and appreciate what you have - know when to seek outside help The New Rules of Marriage will introduce you to a radically new kind of relationship, one based on the idea that every woman has the power to transform her marriage, while men, given the right support, have it in them to rise to the occasion. We have never wanted so much from our relationships as we do today. More than any other generation, we yearn for our mates to be lifelong friends and lovers. The New Rules of Marriage shows us how to fulfill this courageous and uncompromising new vision. From the Hardcover edition
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